Monday, March 24, 2008

Pacifism Preface

The last two months have been extremely demanding of my energy. There are now 5 people who need my efforts on a nearly hourly basis. Eating for 4 (yes, I still firmly believe I am pregnant with twins, plus I am still nursing) leaves me feeling a little like I am hosting Mono or something. My husband has been deteriorating from trying to play competitive basketball in our church's league with the result that he actually dislocated his shoulder Saturday (this makes the 4th time in the last 8-10 years) worse than ever before. He is on so much pain medication that it's about all he can do to stay awake enough to eat without laying back down. Business is going as well a start-up can hope for - but that still means slow, i.e. nearly zero cash flow - and now a husband out for a week.

Yet, we remain beautifully sheltered from the lovely spring showers. Birds happily tease my cats from the trees outside our large insulated windows. Our bellies remain filled with nutrient-dense foods. My children remain outstanding and capable of love that would keep me smiling even if we were living under a bridge together. So, I do not mean for the previous paragraph to come off as a complaint. I was hoping it would serve more as an explanation for my silence on this blog - or an explanation of my contributions that have been a bit less significant than what I might like to be writing about. I prefer writing about ideas/pondering/musings/etc. I have missed having the time to devote to thinking.

That said, I would like to dip my toes back into exploring, for myself, what I think the biblical perspective is on non-violence/pacifism.

I have a met-only-through-blogging friend named Dustin, whose blog I discovered from searching for other people who listed "Over the Rhine" as a favorite artist on their blogspot profile (though he no longer uses blogspot). I have enjoyed reading his pondering on spiritual matters, as I think he is a true seeker - regardless of where some of our theological musings may differ. We have chatted about having a little blog-hopping, or at least tandem, discussion about topics related to pacifism. We will provide links back and forth to the corresponding post. I think his views on this topic are more settled than mine, but I think whatever I conclude, my ideas will be sharpened from the discussion. I hope you, my reader, will allow me this "change from the usual programming".

Here is a rough sketch of what we have in mind to guide our discussion:

1. definition of pacifism versus non-violence (also with a discussion of non-violent resistance versus non-resistance)

2. non-violence and its implications — nationally

3. non-violence and its implications — for the church

4. non-violence and its implications — for the individual

5. physical discipline in the home as it relates to non-violence

I say "rough sketch" because I am sure that somewhere in there we will stumble into a discussion of hermeneutics and divine determinism, or basically a readers-digest-version of our primary assumptions...but I also hope to post Scrivner-silliness along the way so as to keep you entertained and engaged with my person as a whole (or however much that can actually happen without sitting on the floor with me and the boys before dinner), for I am not plagued by this topic, just very interested in sorting it out for myself. I am going to try to write something for this each week.

I will try to title the posts so that if you do not care to read them you can know which ones to skip. I also am excited to see how you might contribute to the discussion, as I would love to be benefited by your thoughts as well. The first paragraph of this post was also an explanation of why I might not be able to respond as quickly as I might like (see my previous post about not liking to leave people waiting), and for the sake of achieving the ends for which I am setting out, I will prioritize responding to Dustin, and then turn my attention to responding to others.

Sara Kay - I know this was a sensitive subject a few months ago. I do not mean for any of this to be directed at you or your church family. I do not think either of us have the time to devote to fully working it out (at least not quickly) amidst tending to our families (especially since I have not even sorted out my own thinking and I know we are similarly passionate and devoted and could easily get too consumed), but perhaps you and I could engage in some blog-hopping dialog once this discussion is over and I actually have had time to figure out what I think! Sound fair?

Further disclaimer - What ever conclusions I state, I am NOT suggesting that people who beg to differ are just wrong, or heathens, or anything like that. My current position is probably best illustrated by this post on my other blog. We stand or fall before God individually. I am just striving to stand for myself.

9 comments:

  1. Marianne,

    I am going to be posting my "intro" (much like your's) today. So, maybe let's plan on having the first post done by Monday? Will that work with your schedule? I know you are extremely busy. Maybe let me know in your comments here or on my blog.

    Blessings to you and your family.

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  2. Marianne,
    I've been sensing this week that the timing was right for you to go back into this subject. I hope you find the answers you are looking for.

    For now, I'm going to respectfully withdraw myself from the discussion. Through my own research I have found myself at peace in my own beliefs and in honoring the decisions of my leaders. This kind of discussion used to be invigorating to me, but at this stage in my life it is simply draining, and I don't believe that is fair to my family.

    Thank you for being so considerate of me and my church.

    Blessings!

    Sara Kay

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  3. There are two movies that, when I watched, I wanted to share with you. But I have been waiting for you to feel that the time was right to revisit this topic. These movies are both "war movies" but they both deal with ethics involving violence in the midst of war.

    First is To End All Wars-I recommend this movie with extreme caution. It is one of the hardest movies that I have ever watched. But the end makes it completely worth it-in my opinion. That said, do watch, if anyone chooses to watch it, with caution, feel free to fast forward parts as the violence is awful. But it is based on a true story and the themes of grace and perseverance and loving our enemies are incredibly powerful. It is sobering to see two worldviews clash so severely and humbling to see the power of forgiveness.

    The other movie, which is not nearly so violent, but also contains some great themes of loving ones enemies is Saints and Soldiers.

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  4. You go, thinking woman! I don't know if I'll have anything to contribute, but I shall read your posts with interest.

    Tell your hubby I'm sorry, for all of you, that he's in pain. And hang in there with those prego symptoms!

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  5. Isn't it something how in the midst of all the activity of life the mind keeps running, mulling, puzzling, solving? I find it fascinating that when I'm most frazzled my mind remains calm and functioning, often better than when I'm in a quiet place.

    Please give poor stoned-out Andew our best wishes for a speedy recovery when he's awake and conscious enough to understand. Poor guy.

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  6. Marianne,

    Just wanted to give you a head's up that I was planning on posting my first thoughts, per the topics we discussed, on Monday. Does that work for you?

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  7. Dustin - I am so glad we have begun. I should have the time to post something each Monday. I'll look forward to working on it this weekend. Thanks for being willing to engage in this dialog with me!

    Sara Kay - Thank you for understanding. I hope you are your family are well!

    Heather - Thanks for the movie recommendations; I have added them to my netflix! We will probably get to them during the posts, as my husband will be excited for me to choose "war movies".

    Deanna - Thanks from me and my hubby. I will enjoy hearing anything you might chime in.

    Cherie - He was sober enough to enjoy your well-wishes last night =) Yes, I too am quite interested by the mind. We humans are fascinating creations! Such complexity.

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  8. has your child thats nursing changed nursing schedules in any way? that made me believe believe believe i was pregnant when i was nursing, and it just happened to be because of change in hormones from nursing.... it didn't happen every time she changed but when she drastically slowed.... maybe? or did you get a positive yet?

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  9. Hi Skylana,
    Thanks for the comment. Elliot hasn't changed any nursing schedules that I have noticed...but if something changed in the night feedings, I probably wouldn't notice. No positive yet, but I also haven't tried since the last one because life has just been too busy with my husband's injury. I am working on scheduling an appointment for later this week. I hope to have news soon!

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